JH & I

L'amour de la mia vita II

Received a damned funny comment for my blog yesterday, it was something along the line of, "Omg... what a nerdo bf you got there.... go get a better 1 out there... since you're so hot..:P" With a comment like that how can anyone NOT laugh. I'll gave 'anonymous' a benefit of a doubt that the person is probably:

a) drunk
b) has an IQ of 60
c) is jealous
d) is probably 12 years old judging by the thinking
e) a BIG fan of Pacman, judging by all the "........."

First off, I'm a self professed nerd, but if you think I'm hot, thanks! Second, I do think of JH as attractive. His eyes as well as his personality was the first thing that caught my attention the moment he walked into GameForge. I may be blur as hell but the moment I saw him, I remember thinking, "Hmm..cute"

He's one of the smartest people I've met, and brains is one thing that can really impress me. If style without substance is your taste, whatever floats your boat. I'll take the brains any day though. I have enough of stupid people.

In the extremely short period of time, I think I might have just found my better half. We're still in the phase of learning new things about each other, and discovering little bits of him, makes me love him more. But in terms of personality, we're both on the opposite side, he's the logical and realistic ISTJ , while I'm the dreamy and sensitive INFJ. For him, everything is more on facts, while I rely heavily on feelings and intuition. Yet, together we blend in perfectly, just like coffee and milk. We end up complementing each other and making up for what the other lacks.

Even we found it strange how utterly comfortable we are with one another, perhaps some might dismiss it as the 'everything is still sweet' stage but unlike other 'normal' couples, we had to go through some extremely tough times to enjoy what we're enjoying now. JH gave me nothing less of a 100% and support me during the crisis; I was made to promise never to bring up the subject again by the lawyer hence I will not elaborate on it.

I met his parents the 2nd day we officially went out together, I remember worrying whether his mom would give me a quick scan and deem me unsuitable for their son; Too fat, too ugly, too dumb, too poor, if my family backgrounds was considered okay and such. But to my immense surprised, it was non of that. She greeted me with a grin and that was that. It makes things so much easier when JH knows that I really like his parents and him mine.

We have our ups and down but both of us never denied that we make each other complete. For someone to open their mouth and spew out funky comments like that not only make themselves look shallow and superficial but I'm worried for their IQ as well. How can I be mad at someone like that?

So after saying so much, I guess I'll leave all the "hot" guys to you and keep to my "nerdo" :P