Monday, January 18, 2010

JH & I


L'amour de la mia vita II

Received a damned funny comment for my blog yesterday, it was something along the line of, "Omg... what a nerdo bf you got there.... go get a better 1 out there... since you're so hot..:P" With a comment like that how can anyone NOT laugh. I'll gave 'anonymous' a benefit of a doubt that the person is probably:

a) drunk
b) has an IQ of 60
c) is jealous
d) is probably 12 years old judging by the thinking
e) a BIG fan of Pacman, judging by all the "........."

First off, I'm a self professed nerd, but if you think I'm hot, thanks! Second, I do think of JH as attractive. His eyes as well as his personality was the first thing that caught my attention the moment he walked into GameForge. I may be blur as hell but the moment I saw him, I remember thinking, "Hmm..cute"

He's one of the smartest people I've met, and brains is one thing that can really impress me. If style without substance is your taste, whatever floats your boat. I'll take the brains any day though. I have enough of stupid people.

In the extremely short period of time, I think I might have just found my better half. We're still in the phase of learning new things about each other, and discovering little bits of him, makes me love him more. But in terms of personality, we're both on the opposite side, he's the logical and realistic ISTJ , while I'm the dreamy and sensitive INFJ. For him, everything is more on facts, while I rely heavily on feelings and intuition. Yet, together we blend in perfectly, just like coffee and milk. We end up complementing each other and making up for what the other lacks.

Even we found it strange how utterly comfortable we are with one another, perhaps some might dismiss it as the 'everything is still sweet' stage but unlike other 'normal' couples, we had to go through some extremely tough times to enjoy what we're enjoying now. JH gave me nothing less of a 100% and support me during the crisis; I was made to promise never to bring up the subject again by the lawyer hence I will not elaborate on it.

I met his parents the 2nd day we officially went out together, I remember worrying whether his mom would give me a quick scan and deem me unsuitable for their son; Too fat, too ugly, too dumb, too poor, if my family backgrounds was considered okay and such. But to my immense surprised, it was non of that. She greeted me with a grin and that was that. It makes things so much easier when JH knows that I really like his parents and him mine.

We have our ups and down but both of us never denied that we make each other complete. For someone to open their mouth and spew out funky comments like that not only make themselves look shallow and superficial but I'm worried for their IQ as well. How can I be mad at someone like that?

So after saying so much, I guess I'll leave all the "hot" guys to you and keep to my "nerdo" :P

14 comments:

TJ Lubrano said...

WOOHOOO You go girl! I think mostly jealousy is the key to trigger comments like that. And as long you know everything is right for you...this is such a lovely post!

I honestly don't understand why people even put the energy in commenting stupid things to people they don't even know -_-'. Ah well...you gotta do something with your time right.

I simply LOVE that picture of you two! Amour is in the air ^_^!

Ciao Bella!
*hugs*

Ps.: You know where Elyn is at and if she's doing okay? Please, say hi from me when you speak to her ^_^! Grazie mille!

Sue said...

omg! the first thing I saw, the pic of both of you is so sweetttt! :D:D anyway, don't bother that comment la, some people are too free anyway! haha!

Bunny said...

Awww, this is such a sweet entry! Love it Love it Love it >< Continue to love your nerdo sweetness foreverXD

viv said...

jh is a very lucky man. and, yes, it's brains over brawn!

Lynda said...

Hi there Ashley..I read your blog on and off coz' a fellow Penangite..I'm happy to find a fellow Penangite's blog which I can relate =).

Anyway..that person in obbviously jealous! Your bf is actually cute..honestly I had an ex bf who said my current bf looks like a dog! the nerve of him but it doesn't bother me at all coz' it only confirms that the person in bitter and darn jealous!

=) no worries ya!

skylicious said...

woohoo.. ash your post just awake me from being dreamy.. haha
how could anyone post up such comment, i bet he or she must be under anonymous, or secretly in love with you or JH, or dunno what is the meaning of nerdo? One word describe it all, JEALOUS. haha

Samantha Vamphyri said...

I think 2 of you are very cute together! No point looking for a guy who stare at mirror more than girls!

Shop N' Chomp said...

Tee hee...what a cute post :) And I adore that photo. I dig nerds too. My hubs is def one...hehe.

hevn said...

Dear TJ,
LOL. n

The nut is just another psycho. I admit that I tend to attract a lit of psychos that think they know me very well just because they see me on the streets or something. *shrugs* some people are just plain bored and stupid. :D

Thank youuuu!

I miss Elyn terribly, I tend to think of her daily but I too have not spoken to her, hope she's okay too.

@Sue
Thank youuuuuuuu <3
It doesn't bother me cause I know the person is just being an ass anyway. hehhe

@Bunny
Thankieee sweet!
Will do, he's muh hero :P

@Viv
Indeedo, you said it, far too many many stupid people with IQ below 60 nowadays, gotta treasure the smart ones so our kids don't grow up with IQ the temperature of Siberia.

@Lynda
Thank you so much for your kind comment. Can't tell you how much it means to both me and JH.

LOL, bitter and jealous indeed. This nut is just trying its hardest to piss me off but I'm calm about it since the person is a nutcase with bad english anyway. No point of letting someone like that bother me.

Take care!

@Kernnnnnnn!!!
*muaks*
Muahahahahahhhahaha, you said it sister!

@Sam
agreed, agreed. But imagine how easy it would be to buy him birthday, christmas, anniversary pressie. XDD nahhh wouldn't want that!

@Shop N' chomp
LOL!!
Thank youuuuu, yea, me likey nerds *high5*

Shop N' Chomp said...

Haha...thank you for your sweet comment Ash! =D I wouldn't mind swapping climates with you right now though!

Shop N' Chomp said...

Lol...thanks for the warning! ;)

Shop N' Chomp said...

I couldn't find the "Post A Comment" option on your newest post so here goes:

I think your fair skin can pretty much work with any color. Your pretty purple EOTD illustrates this. :) Good to know you haven't gone mad yet due to the koo-koo weather. :P And yay to knowing you can save lives! I remember learning the Heimlich Maneuver in school but not really paying attention. I should take a class...or Google. ;)

Khy Lynn said...

Sweet entry and I second what you said. Brains > good looks!

fr0stie f0n said...

i think me & jobes are ISTP, the mechanic

coz we like fixing things? lol

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