Friends of mine has been teasing me about the size of my thighs in FB and I'm usually fine with that. Yes yes I have fat thigh, I have thigh that can kick you to the dark side of the moon when you piss me off. I have an ass that can give you cardiac arrest by sitting on you. Yes yes, way to go Captain Obvious. I usually have a good laugh too when people talk about it but some comments can really hurt to the bone, 'chop the legs' and stuffs leaves me going,' Huh? errrr...oh wait, you're talking about yourself right since you're like what, 3 times my size Meng?"
If you're wondering how my body looks like and stuff, think this, I have a slim top with Beyonce like bottom. LMAO. I have a slightly broader shoulder from my early days of swimming and it "somewhat" balances my wider pelvis. In simpler terms, you might call me, "anorexic" just looking at my upper body, you might call me "plump" just looking at my bottom.
Thankfully, my colleague at the next table is my work pillar of support who reminded me that all that matters is that JH loves me, and I am thankful he does. Does it matter a lot if a girl has a 36-37" ass and fat thighs? I'm pretty sure I'll get less comments if I had like a buldging beer belly at 25 years old.
I am 164cm and weight 53kg. My body fat is concentrated on my boobs, ass and thighs as I have a 23 1/2" waist.
I can laugh at myself because I am not delusional about my bodyshape nor am I the type to hide things and deny that I am flawed. I don't prance around in rose coloured glasses and think I am perfect and is God's gift to men nor am I so totally out of shape that a roadkill looks better than me.
I do not take one look at someone and make snide comments about their apearance, "Oh look at her calves it's so weird" or "LOL, that person is as shapely as a banana, nyahahhahahaa" etc. I do not take a look at someone with a better body shape than me and try to find some kind of flaw and then make fun of them. I love everyone regardless of shape and size, colour and height. I wish everyone would too.
Oh wait, haven't I talked about this before?
